Madeleine

Not many people talk about these things before getting married, but we feel it’s so important to discuss: 1. What are non-negotiables in our marriage? 2. How do we set healthy boundaries with family members? How much do we want our in-laws and extended family involved? 3. Do we want to have kids? If so, how many and when? What if we face fertility issues? 4. Where do we see ourselves in 10, 20 years and beyond? 5. How do we manage our finances - joint or separate accounts? What are our financial goals (buying a house, investments, etc.) 6. Where do we want to live after getting married? Rent or buy? House or apartment? Which city or country? 7. What are our career goals and ambitions? If we have kids, who takes time off? 8. How do we divide household responsibilities? How do we feel about gender roles or splitting chores? 9. Are our religious or spiritual beliefs compatible? How will they shape our life and our future kids’ lives? 10. What are our thoughts on prenups? These conversations can feel awkward, but they build real trust. We got married in September last year and had to talk through a lot of these. And honestly? We didn’t agree on everything at first - but the most important thing was promising to stay honest and non-judgmental. And we always found a solution together 🥰 What do you think is the most important thing to talk about before marriage? ☺️ #relatable #marriage #marriageadvice #couplegoals #agegap

Which green flag is your fav? 💚 I could list so many more green flags because he’s truly an angel of a husband 🥰 What did I do to deserve him? 🥹 So screw the 7-year age gap 😂 #greenflags #husbandgoals #agegap #couplegoals #relatable

Age gaps, habits, expectations - every couple has their “thing.” What’s yours? Let’s normalize different kinds of love 🫶🏼 #relatable #honest #agegap #couplegoals #relationshipgoals